Wednesday, December 18, 2019

Bestie' Friendships Is Zina



Islam doesn't permit any special form of closeness or friendship between two opposite genders, because it will inevitably involve Zina of the tongue, the hands, the eyes and that of the private part in the long run.

Bestie' Friendships Is Zina
Fahad Aliyu Bello

'Zina' has been modified into a modern-day 'Bestie' filth. In other words it means 'Best Friends', usually it occurs between two opposite genders who believe that as a result of their mutual compatibility, they should become best friends without the intention of marriage. They call and chat often. They exchange secrets and confide on each other things they don't even relate with their families. This is nothing but Fahshaa (Indecency).

Your so called 'BESTIE' knows everything about you:
- He knows when you are menstruating and when you are clean.
- He knows your various weekly styles.
- He knows your birthday.
- He knows your deepest feminine secrets.
- He knows your family secrets.
-He knows All your suitors.
- You even share your Hijab and off- hijab pictures with him because you trust him.
- You make video calls with him.
- You share voice messages with him.
- You chat with him till midnight.
- You go places with him and he acts like a superman.

 This is nothing but nonsense, If you both are truly perfect for each other, then why not get married? This shows that the friendship is nothing but deception and pretense.

Islam doesn't permit any special form of closeness or friendship between two opposite genders, because it will inevitably involve Zina of the tongue, the hands, the eyes and that of the private part in the long run. The only form of friendship allowed is that of your fellow gender, not the opposite gender.

Allah has given us blood brothers and sisters through our family ties, they should be your real best friends. Even if you are a lonely child find solace in your peers. Islam doesn't allow any form of discussion between a strange man and a strange woman except for an 'extremely genuine' need.
Most teenage girls were betrayed and disvirgined by these male besties who act as superman to his victim. But are actually wolves looking for a perfect time to devour its prey.
 My brothers and sisters, be careful, whom you are chatting with, and what topic you are chatting, a non-Mahram is a non-Mahram, and remember that Allah is watching, the angels are writing and witnessing every deed you do.

The Prophet  صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said; "Do not be alone with non-Mahram." when you are two, shaytan is the third pumping you to do shameful act."
May Allah saves us from Zina and it's agents.

Keep It Halaal.

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